What is Outercourse?
Outercourse, as opposed to intercourse, usually refers, in a playfull manner, to types of sexual intimacy which do not involve the penis entering the vagina or anus. Some examples include:
- holding hands
- hugs
- kisses
- petting above the belt
- oral-genital contact
- petting below the belt
- mutual masturbation
- touching
- massaging
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What are the advantages of Outercourse?
- Outercourse is always an option...there are no supplies needed and it is free!
- It's fun, and there is no worry about pregnancy. For some, it's more fun than traditional intercourse.
- No fluid is deposited in the woman's vagina. There is some protection, but perhaps not total protection, against sexually transmitted infections.
- There are no medical complications.
- Outercourse can increase emotional closeness between individuals.
- It may be a more acceptable practice for some people's cultures or religions.
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What are the disadvantages of Outercourse?
- Oral sex can spread some sexually transmitted infections.
- One partner may really want to have intercourse. This can cause stress, and strategies should be discussed to overcome this stress.
- This method may get either partner thinking: "Is this going to go farther than I want?" This concern may decrease their enjoyment.
- A couple may not be prepared to protect themselves from pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections if they switch to intercourse.
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